What Men & Women Really Want for Valentine's Day

What She Wants…spouse how much he truly appreciates and cares for
Little girls dream or romantic gifts and wedding days,her. Too often than not, men try to tie this message
and their first real taste of this is Valentine's Day.in with the gift they purchase and ultimately look for
Gaudy cards inscribed with the finest 8th gradevalidation from their wives. However, there is no gift
poetry and priceless costume jewelry has melted thein this world that can effectively express a person's
hearts of more than one 12 year old girl. What dofeelings for another, nor is seeking validation within a
pre-adolescents know that grownups forget? It ismarriage a "good" thing. In order to get a great
not the gift that matters, but what the giftpicture of this, one only has to think of the little boy
symbolizes that makes all the difference in the world.who secretly puts an apple on his teacher's desk. He
A boy takes a lot of time and creativity todesperately seeks to let her know how he feels
overcome the challenge of turning his meagerabout her, however cannot find the right words, thus
allowance into an expression of "true love". He mayin the end the apple says it all!
feel that he falls short of his mark when he discoversSometimes it is hard to believe but men are, in fact,
that he cannot afford the "finest", but it is theseeking the exact same thing that women are - love
energy and time he expends in finding a way toand intimacy. There is no argument that men and
make his girl feel special that shouts out, "I love you".women go about it in very different ways, however
This transforms the gift into a cherished possessionemotional vulnerability seems to be more difficult for
in her heart and memory for years to come.men to verbally express. Thus men truly seek this
That is what women want for Valentine's Day! Theyfor Valentine's Day - the ability to be emotionally
want to have an overwhelmingly wonderful feeling ofvulnerable with their spouse, to express their love for
knowing that their man has a special place in his hearttheir wives and be accepted for who they truly are
reserved just for them.by the one they care about the most.
"I would like to spend the day with just him, no kids,"All I would want is a hug from her." - 35 year old
touring Old Victorian Homes." - 39 year old RetailTransportation Coordinator and father of 2
Consultant and mother of 4"I would enjoy a romantic outing with her, maybe
"I would like to come home to find the kitchenwalking on the beach." - 29 year old Design Engineer
furniture removed so we could dim the lights andand father of 1
slow dance." - 62 year old Mary Kay Consultant and"All I need is a kiss." - 27 year old Staff Scientist and
mother of 9engaged
"I would like him to give me a coupon book for him"I would want to go out together and do something
to do chores around the house - not that he doesn'twe've wanted to do but never got around to." - 30
do his share, but just so that when I have a hardyear old Professional Educator and father of 1
day, I can use it and really feel his support." - 33 yearRay & Jean Kadkhodaian are the founders and
old Marriage & Family Therapist and mother of 1creaters of the Emotional Wellness Vision. Their
"I would like to let down my guard and let the littlemodel provides a myriad of emotional wellness tools
girl in me, play with the little boy in him." - 35 year oldto help others create better and more fulfilling
Mentoring Supervisor and mother of 2relationships. Through their revolutionary model, they
"I would love for him to cook me dinner." - 45 yearhave helped tremendous numbers of people enhance
old Stay-at-home mother of 4their relationship from 'good' to 'Great'. Their
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