History of Gift Giving - Mother's Day

Mother's Day is one of the most popular gift-givingUnited States it is customary to plant tomatoes on
holidays of the year, running a close fourth to Easter,Mother's Day.
Christmas, and Valentine's Day. We can trace thisUpon her death, her daughter Anna Jarvis founded a
holiday back to ancient times when the mother figurememorial day for women that began in Grafton,
was greatly revered.West Virginia on May 10, 1908. The custom soon
In ancient Greece, the festival of Cybele, the greatspread to 45 states until 1914, when President
mother of the Greek gods, was held around theWoodrow Wilson declared the first national Mother's
Vernal Equinox which took place in the spring. ThisDay to remember the mothers whose sons had died
celebration was adopted by the Romans andin war.
celebrated between March 15th and March 18th. TheOnce the holiday was official, businesses began
Romans also celebrated Matronalia in honor of theturning it into a commercial venture. Anna Jarvis
goddess Juno which was also celebrated in theherself became an opponent of what the holiday that
month of March. Roman mothers were given gifts onshe had begun had turned into but to no avail.
this day to show respect for them.Mother's Day is the busiest day of the year in the
In Great Britain and Ireland, they celebrate Motheringrestaurant industry as most people take their mother
Sunday. This day always falls on the fourth Sundayout to dinner. Florists and gift basket companies also
of Lent and began as a 16th century tradition thatmake a profit as people buy these items to give to
people went to visit their mother church annually,their mothers.
often reuniting mothers with their children for thisAgain, the holiday that we know as Mother's Day
one day. As society became more secular, the datefalls on the second Sunday in May in the United
was adopted as a time to celebrate and give thanksStates. This date varies from country to country. In
to mothers.Norway, it is celebrated on the second Sunday in
In the United States, Mother's Day is celebrated onFebruary, while in the former Soviet Union it falls on
the second Sunday in May. The American holiday wasMarch 3rd. Great Britain still celebrates it on the fourth
loosely based on the British day and was introducedSunday in Lent, while many Middle Eastern countries
by Julia Ward Howe, a social activist and poet duringcelebrate it on March 21st. Portugal and Spain
the Civil War who wrote "The Battle Hymn of thecelebrates Mother's Day on the first Sunday in May,
Republic." She introduced the holiday as a way towhile Mexico celebrates the occasion on May 10th. No
unite women against the war. While Howe was notmatter what part of the world that you are in, there
very successful in this attempt, a young homemakeris some form of Mother's Day celebrated.
from Appalachia named Ann Jarvis attempted toNo matter how commercialized this holiday has
improve sanitary conditions on both sides of the Civilbecome, for some women this day represents the
War by adopting Mothers' Work Day in 1858. Afterone time during the year that their families actually
the war was over, she used the day to try toappreciate them and may even say "thank you" for
reconcile Union and Confederate neighbors. As aall that they do. We can hope to celebrate Mother's
remnant of this conciliation, in some parts of theDay for a long time to come.